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Mental wellbeing

How are you feeling today?

Your mental health and emotional wellbeing is as important as your physical health. Planning for a pregnancy can be an emotional and sometimes overwhelming time for many women and families.  Many women ask themselves questions like:

  • Will I make a good mother?
  • How might this change my relationships with friends and family?
  • How will I manage financially?
  • Will I still have a life and identity of my own?
  • What happens if we don’t conceive easily?

It is very common to have these thoughts and feelings whilst you prepare for a pregnancy. It is good time to think about how you will look after your mental health and wellbeing. Evidence suggests there are a number of steps that can help:

  • Connect with other people to…
    • help build belonging and self-worth
    • give you an opportunity to share positive experience
    • provide emotional support
  • Be physically active. Your mental wellbeing is closely linked with your physical wellbeing. 
  • Pay attention to the present moment, which is often called mindfulness. The video below gives you an introduction to mindfulness.

You may find The Pregnancy and Post-Birth Wellbeing Plan from Tommy's charity useful to use.