Mental wellbeing
How are you feeling today?
Your mental health and emotional wellbeing is as important as your physical health. Planning for a pregnancy can be an emotional and sometimes overwhelming time for many women and families. Many women ask themselves questions like:
- Will I make a good mother?
- How might this change my relationships with friends and family?
- How will I manage financially?
- Will I still have a life and identity of my own?
- What happens if we don’t conceive easily?
It is very common to have these thoughts and feelings whilst you prepare for a pregnancy. It is good time to think about how you will look after your mental health and wellbeing. Evidence suggests there are a number of steps that can help:
- Connect with other people to…
- help build belonging and self-worth
- give you an opportunity to share positive experience
- provide emotional support
- Be physically active. Your mental wellbeing is closely linked with your physical wellbeing.
- Pay attention to the present moment, which is often called mindfulness. The video below gives you an introduction to mindfulness.

You may find The Pregnancy and Post-Birth Wellbeing Plan from Tommy's charity useful to use.